I have a question for all you mommy's or even daddy's out there tonight...?

You do change when you become a mum, you have this little person that is depending on you and you can lose sight of your relationship with your partner. The fact you don't feel like is totally normal as well. Your body has changed, it took 9 months to get that way it's going to take a while to get back again. Gentle exercise and tummy toning is okay to start now and work up from there. I am a gym junky but get sick during pregnancy so have to let go until I can go back to the gym again. Try not to be worried about your body, it always looks worse in your own eyes! When I had my first child I fell so in love that my relationship with my partner took a backseat. It caused problems for us but we decided to work on it. We had some counselling and then we started to date and fell in love all over again. You need time for you, and you need time for you and your partner. Intimacy doesn't have to mean , but if you start with some of the other stuff you may be surprised and actually feel like again. Be open with your partner and tell him how you feel. I bet he'll be a whole lot more understanding than you think!